Receive things differently

"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."
                                                                                Romans 12:2.  NKJV

When things are coming at us right, left and centre; instead of giving into the injustice of it all, it's far better to turn the situation around. Instead of seeing them as negative, try to see them as positive. Instead of seeing chores and bad feelings, try to see them as blessings. In fact, be blessed instead of being robbed. Now this obviously is not easy to do. It takes practice, patience and perseverance.

It may help to look at a very basic form of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Using this, one is helped to take control of their thoughts and look at the emotions it causes. They can then look for a better outcome to the situation.

In basic CBT, we have, a Situation, an Emotion, an Automatic thought, a Rational response and an Outcome.  Let us look at an example very briefly:

SITUATION
This may be the pain of seeing someone promoted into a job that you thought was yours.
EMOTION
You may be hurt, jealous and very angry because of this.
AUTOMATIC THOUGHT
'I hate that person, they always do better than me. I'm always left on the sidelines.'

From here, a person can throw a wobbly and cause a major scene, even putting their own job at risk. They may even walk out, telling everyone what they think of them
Therefore, we need to adjust our thinking somewhat:

RATIONAL RESPONSE
*  'I have a choice here. I can leave and find a better job.'
*  'Does the person realise the amount of responsibility that they're taking on? They won't cope'
*   Congratulate the person (I know it sucks) but do it anyway - genuinely, and offer to help 
     them in anyway you can.

OUTCOME
Relative peace and the knowledge you've done it God's way

We need to train ourselves to think differently. Doing things the way Jesus would do them, is not always easy. We want to rant and rave and moan and groan at some people - Jesus blesses them.
Hating a person because they have done better than us, is not the way forward and it shows the state of the heart. We need to rectify this - immediately!

What issues or problems are you facing at this time? Together with prayer, Romans 12:2 and this basic form of CBT, which is basically in tune with this scripture, try to forge a better way forward. The way Jesus would go. This CBT formula can be adapted to whatever you may be facing.

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com


















  

Captivate the people you see

"Let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your Heavenly Father."                                        Matthew 5:16 New Living Translation  

Repetitious preaching and teaching can have the affect of being a hammer that is continually knocking a nail into a wall. It can seem tedious. However, it is needed. You will notice that many preachers, especially on the God channels, appear to teach on the same subject and text every week. I love listening and watching RT Kendall. In my opinion, his teaching is powerful and reaches me every time. However, he will teach on the same subject for many weeks. This is because he is expounding the scripture - squeezing every drop of it out for our benefit. 
You may find, that many daily commentaries do the same, including this one. When I seek God for what He wishes me to write each day, I wait until He has given me the instructions. Therefore, I must write what the Holy Spirit gives me, and the preachers and teachers we see, have to do the same.

The Apostle Paul teaches us on this subject: 'Finally my brethren, rejoice in the Lord. For me to write the same things to you is not tedious, but for you it is safe. ' Philippians 3:1. Paul is saying that this method of his teaching is important to safeguard them. There were many people out there, and still are today, who seek to mislead us, taking us away from the truth.

Therefore, let us once more look at Matthew 5:16. Jesus is saying in The Sermon on the Mount, 'Let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your Heavenly Father.'
Note the words 'everyone' and 'good.' It is God's desire that everyone, throughout this world, get to hear the Gospel of peace. With the technology that we have today, this is a great possibility, but there is more to do here, and this may be the person who lives next door to us.

The Greek word for 'good' here in our text is Kalos and means that a thing is not only good but it is also captivating, beautiful and attractive. Kalos draws people and charms them in a Godly way. It draws attention to God  - not ourselves. We should never be tempted to think how good a job we have done but thank God what He has done through us or enabled us to do.

This is the type of 'good' that the world needs and is seeking. People are searching for something but many don't know what it is. For some it may mean money, for others it may mean a better house than other people have. Yet others may be seeking sexual relations with as many people as they can. Drugs, booze and the wrong type of excitement. At the end of the day, what good will it do them if Jesus isn't their Saviour.

Notice Jesus in the Gospels. As He walks around (doing good - kalos) He captivates and draws crowds to Himself. People just couldn't resist Him because He had something, they hadn't, but wanted but they wasn't sure what. And this is what it is like today. People need Him. When they are in our presence, they know there is something difference about us but they just can't figure it out.

As we get closer to Jesus, and start to spread Kalos wherever we go, we too will captivate and draw people to us; not because of ourselves, but because of the fact that the Lord Jesus Christ lives within us.

Now that is 'good' news

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com

We're here on serious business

"Go into all the world and preach the Gospel to every creature."   Mark 16:15.  NKJV

William Barclay says:-
'One of the most poignant tragedies of life is for someone, especially a young person, to come and say to us, "I would never have been in this situation in which I now find myself, if you had only spoken to me in time."

Let those words sink in for a moment. The words remind me of a question from Evangelism Explosion, which was a successful evangelism training programme back in the 80's. One of the questions that people had to ask someone they met was, 'If you were to die today and go up to the gates of Heaven and you were asked why you should be allowed in, what would you say?' Of course the right answer to this would have been, 'Because Jesus is my Saviour.'

The first example would be directed at us with someone basically saying, 'Why didn't you tell me that I needed Jesus to get into Heaven?' The second example would be the realisation that a person cannot go to Heaven by attending church, reading a bible, being good to people or giving lots of money to charity. They are good works, but not good enough. Both of these examples require Jesus. He is the link into Heaven. People need Jesus, He has the key to Heaven. Without Him we are lost.

Charles Finney wrote:-

'However perfect and holy we may become, Jesus Christ will forever be, the sole reason that we are not in hell.'                                                            Charles Finney Living for God P14

Finney was a very direct and strict man but he was sold out for Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, and his presence alone caused fire to fall. Here's an example:-

'Charles Finney passed through a small community in upstate, New York. Houghton, New York, was a normal town, yet one day as Charles Finney's train was passing by, the Holy Spirit fell on the sinners of the community. Men in bars fell on their knees, under the conviction of the Holy Spirit and asked Jesus Christ to save them.'
                                                                  Intercessors Arise International, Facebook page

We all get one chance at being a human being. This is it. The thing is, what are we going to do about it? People are dying everyday. What will be their destination? This brings us back to the first example; are we going to tell people about Jesus or not? Thanks  If not, how will you feel if they come up to you in Heaven and ask, 'Why didn't you tell me? I don't know Jesus, but I could have done if you had told me.'

Does this sound like a trip is being laid upon you? I'm sorry, but that is because it was intended of you to do so. We are not all like Charles Finney and we don't need to be. He had a special calling. However, let's not forget the commission that Jesus left us with, 'Go into all the world and preach the Gospel to every creature.'   Mark 16:15.

We all have the ability to talk to people about our faith and why we believe as we do. We don't need to have attended a bible college to do this. We don't have to be a certain age to carry this out either. The young can do it and so can the elderly. There's no retirement in the Kingdom of God. 

The young are learning about it and the elderly have a wealth of knowledge to show them, almost like, 'Watch and learn.' The thing is, whatever age you are, there's still a lot more to learn about Jesus and He still has a job for us to do, whatever that may be. No one is too young and no one is too old. In God's eyes, we're all valuable assets.

Finney, before he knew Jesus, was searching for Christianity, and told people that he was going off into some woods and wouldn't return until he had heard from God. A couple of days later, the power of the Holy Spirit came down upon him with so much force, that he would never be the same again. 

Jesus introduced Himself to Mr Finney and then taught him. Whatever age, we need to be doing the same, because we're here on serious business!

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com

A Pebble in your Shoe

"In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world."                                                                           John 16:33.  NKJV

The word 'Tribulation,' can cover trials, distress and suffering. It is something hard to bear physically or emotionally, or an annoying or frustrating, catastrophic event.

Tribulation can cover a multitude of things, not only major ones that we expect may happen in the End times, but things that can happen to everyone from time to time.
Take for example a pebble in the shoe.  When this happens it can feel like we have a massive, jagged boulder in our shoe. However, when we check, it may only be a tiny pebble. It's crazy that something so small can give us so much discomfort.

Mostly, although annoying, we can slip the shoe off and be free from this terrible discomfort. At other times, it is not so easy especially if we're on a route march, where we can't really stop and where to remove the boot would be a major chore.

How do they get in there in the first place. If we were to tell someone that we're going to kick up a small stone and make it land in our shoe, it would probably never happen and they would feel that we're very strange. But, when we're least expecting it - Wham! - a pebble arrives from nowhere and it's threatening to dig into our big toe. Not nice.

Life's a little like this though. We can be getting on with our day, when suddenly, something happens that knocks us for six. One minute we have a measure of peace, the next anxiety, pain and utter despair; and rather like the pebble, no matter how small it may be, it hurts and we can't seem to move it so that we can have some relief.

Our lives can be very much like this. The pebble may represent something that has happened to us that we can't forget. It causes pain and discomfort and no matter how much we try, we can't seem to forget what has happened so that we can move on. 
Alternatively, there may be something that we have done or said and the pebble causes us guilt and condemnation. Firstly, we need to remember that there is no condemnation for Christians:

'There is therefore now, no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.'   (Romans 8:1)

Secondly, guilt is a reminder that we need to put something right. We may need to go to someone and tell them that we are sorry for our behaviour towards them. Then if the guilt remains, we will know that it is the enemy attacking us and trying to turn this into condemnation. We can then tell him to get behind us in Jesus' Name because we are not guilty.

The pebble can be a good thing actually. It can be a time when we search within ourselves and assess our walk with Jesus, and how it is going. We all have issues in life and we have to learn to deal with them appropriately. The answer to most issues such as this is: forgiving people and asking for forgiveness. When we do this, it brings a certain release. It is rather like taking off our shoe and shaking the pebble out.

Forgiveness sets a person free from the bondage we've been living under. It's a choice, but Jesus has very strong feelings about this. Make sure you read and understand the following:

'(14)For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. (15) but  if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.'
                                                                                                  Matthew 6:14-15

These are very important words and words that we need to take notice of. When we do, the pebble in our life will disappear and we'll have a new bounce to our Spiritual life.

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com

Salt

"You are the salt of the earth, but if the salt loses its flavour, how shall it be seasoned?"  
                                                                                   Matthew 5:13.  NKJV

Salt was connected to purity. Therefore, if Christians are the salt of the earth, they must be examples of purity. James 1:27 says that a Christian should keep themselves, unspotted or unstained from the world. Colossians 1:22 says that we should present ourselves holy and blameless and above reproach, because that's what Jesus did for us.

Salt is a preservative. Many people on farms, still have meats, such as bacon, preserved in salt. I remember some farms that used to have these joints of bacon, hanging from their kitchen ceilings until they were ready to eat them. Therefore, salt keeps things from going bad or from corruption. Salt also protects. Just think how it melts the black ice on our roads during a cold winter. 

In Roman times, salt was considered a valuable commodity and it wasn't unusual for soldiers of the Roman Empire being paid in salt. Hence the sayings, 'He's worth his salt,' or if he was a poor worker, 'He isn't worth his salt.'

Salt creates a thirst and draws people to water. If Jesus called His disciples the, 'Salt of the earth,' then He was saying they had the capabilities to draw people to Himself. Also, He classed the disciples - and us - as precious commodities.

I don't use salt in my food all that much, in fact, hardly ever. However, for me, salt does add flavour to the food. It seasons it just right. That's my opinion, your may be different. Jesus wants us to offer flavour to all we meet; to season them well by introducing them to the Kingdom of God. 

If salt is connected to purity; then we also should be pure in all we do and say. Jesus calls us the salt of the earth, therefore, we should be an example to whoever is around.

Salt never really loses its saltiness and we shouldn't lose ours either. Jesus was speaking here of how mixing with the wrong crowd and compromising our faith from time to time, can lead us to losing our saltiness. We all like to enjoy ourselves but there are limits. We can so easily step over this line, and let's be honest, we do and that is the start of losing our saltiness - becoming ineffective, stained and full of blame where fingers can be pointed at us. This is why the Apostle Paul wrote, 'But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.' I Corinthians 9:27.

These are strong words and we have to be careful that we too, are not disqualified because of our behaviour, caused possibly, by the wrong company we keep, and/or not being in control of ourselves.

If you feel this is you; if you feel disqualified then there is good news. You may have lost your saltiness but repent; put it right with Jesus, and then get on with the good work. You know why? Because, you're the salt of the earth!

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com

Are you a writer?

"My heart is overflowing with a good theme; I recite my composition concerning the King; My tongue is the pen of a ready writer."                    Psalm 45:1.  NKJV

Are you a writer? Have you ever thought that you would like to write a book, a blog or a poem about Jesus? You say, 'I can't write, at all." Of course you can. You write letters don't you? And if you don't, what about notes to people or jotting down your thoughts when you've felt God speaking to you about something.? Of course you can write, it's just that you've never really considered doing it.

The Psalmist here is so joyful that he can't contain that joy, he has to put it into poetry; a love song to the King. His heart is overflowing with the joy that can only come from the Holy Spirit. When this happens, it builds up within you and if you don't shout it out or write it down, you feel that you will burst.

The tongue cannot remain quiet - ever. It's always busy saying this or that. For some people, they just cannot contain their words, they just have to release them. Others, may be more composed and keep things close to their chests, but within, there is a fire burning.

This is probably you right now. At this time in your life, you may have words within you that you must do something with - but what? Well for one thing, think about Jesus. Philippians says:

Whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of a good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy, meditate on these things."
                                                                                        Philippians 4:8.  NKJV

This describes Jesus doesn't it? So as we meditate on this, words can begin to flow from your pen - the tongue. These words are really beautiful words and the New Living Translation describes this verse as: 'Beautiful words stir my heart.' Psalm 45:1. Just think about this phrase. Our heart is stirred when we read scripture and your pen can then begin to write,

You may not have the desire to write a book, but then again, you may have. But you do have the  capability to read God's Word and write things down in your note book. This is one of the ways that God speaks to us. Many people have written some lovely poems by doing this; others have written songs. You're no different. You have a tongue so therefore, this can be the beginning of a ready writer.

Why not sit and meditate today and then let your pen begin to write. You never know, what you come up with may bless many people.

Give it a try!

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com

Examine yourself

"But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another."                                              Galatians 6:4.  NKJV

There are a few questions that we would benefit from asking ourselves, periodically:

WHEN WE DO SOMETHING FOR GOD, WHAT IS OUR MOTIVE?
It is so easy to try and compete with someone else. We see a person carrying out some amazing stuff for God, and they appear highly favoured by all, so we may try to do better. If this is the case, if we're not careful, competition can take place between ourselves and the other person - yet they may not realise this. We may try to out-preach or out-teach them or be more successful at leading the worship than they are. We may have more words to give out from the front of the church or just try to be the centre of attention when in that person's presence. So therefore, we need to check ourselves and see if our service is given from selfish motives, instead of wanting to please Jesus.

DO WE GO TO CHURCH FOR THE RIGHT REASONS?
Has church become a habit or do we genuinely go to meet with God. Has going to church become a place where we can meet together and hear the latest gossip about someone? 

When we do things for Jesus out of a pure heart, we will having rejoicing within ourselves. It makes us feel good that we have pleased God; that we have helped someone in their daily walk or we've shown someone the love of Jesus, that they badly needed.
We're not rejoicing because we have competed well with someone or maybe, done better. That will only lead to guilt pretty soon and lead us far away from God. Remember, He will never leave us, but we can move out of His presence by selfish and sinful acts that lead to pride.
The rejoicing that our text today mentions, is believing that we have received God's approval for what we have done or said.

Examining ourselves is very helpful as it gives us a good idea of how we're doing in our walk with Jesus. It is a self-assessment and if done properly, can help us weed out the things that we know should not be there in our lives.

I once heard a preacher say that at the end of the day, when he retired to bed, he would ask God, 'Lord, have I pleased You today?' Just think about that question. That should be our goal on a daily basis, to please God, not any other person; but God first. If we set our sights on this, we will easily please others as we go about our day.

Wherever we go, we will be spreading Jesus all over the place. People may not want us to, 'Preach about God,' to them, but they will not be able to stop us pleasing them.
When I worked in a busy social work office, one worker was notorious  for his small jokes. One day, someone brought him a mug of coffee but the handle was at the back of the mug. He looked over at me and asked if I would turn his mug around so that he could reach the handle. To his surprise, I did. I walked over to his desk and turned the mug round so that he could pick it up without any effort. He was flabbergasted and also embarrassed about this and he never used this again, as far as I know.
It was no hardship for me to do this. I wasn't in the habit of doing this type of thing, I just felt, as he asked, I would please him.

Examining ourselves, and having our sights set on pleasing God each day, has got to be the way forward. If we adopt this attitude, we'll be on the way to living for God.

Copyright 2019 Grahame Howard

dailylifewithjesus@protonmail.com