"Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself." Philippians 2:3 NKJV
To show respect to others, is to demonstrate esteem, honour and appreciation for them. We would do this is we met Jesus in the street, wouldn't we? So therefore, we should to others too. We are often on our best behaviour when we are in the presence of an important person, yet we tend to relax and let all of this go when we are with the 'norm' - and this includes your spouse.
We can be so full of ourselves that no one else gets a look in. This can be classed as selfish ambition and bordering on conceitedness. Conceit means to have a high exaggerated opinion of oneself or one's accomplishments. It can be classed as vanity. Let's be honest, there are many times when we can speak forever about ourself and the things that we are involved in, yet hardly speak at all when we are with the people who matter most. Doing this, we demonstrate selfishness.
Are you always the first to get served when the buffet or BBQ is ready? Do you pile your plate as if food is going out of fashion with the choice pieces before anyone else has the opportunity? It's called selfishness and lack of respect. Again, do you chase around a car park to get the only available space and sit there and gloat when you've succeeded, leaving the other person without? It's called selfishness. In fact, there can be heated arguments over one parking space. Ask yourself, is it worth it? Is it worth the high blood pressure and a complete demonstration of how not to live the Christian life?
Scripture tells us, '(Love) does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil' 1 Corinthians 13:5. Does this convict and challenge you? It does me and I'm writing it. We have such a long way to go to be like Jesus; to demonstrate His love and care to this world. Sometimes it feels an impossible task, but it's not because, 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me' Philippians 4:13. Note the 'through Christ.' This is how we gain success - through Him. We'll never do it on our own 'Without Me, you can do nothing' John 15:5.
Show people Jesus - that is respect and never selfishness
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