“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses". Matthew 6:14-15 NKJV
We are called upon to forgive people when they have wronged us. After-all, Jesus forgave us and we may have let Him down so badly all our life. What is more, He not only forgave us but, He chose not to remember it anymore. Now this is an important lesson to learn.
It doesn't matter if they are believers or unbelievers, we need to forgive them if they abuse us. Why is this, why should they be allowed to hurt us and we not be allowed to take revenge against them or refuse to forgive? It doesn't seem fair. You're right, in the eyes of the world it isn't fair to not take revenge and doubly difficult to offer an apology. To many this is weak. Hey, but we don't belong in this world any longer, we're passing through en-route to heaven. But until then, there are rules that we must keep.
Let us take a look at forgiveness from a believer's concept. Someone offends us in some way. We can rebuke them but they may take no notice, give us a mouthful of abuse and then walk off. At this point, to some believers, it may spark some kind of retaliation against this offender and they may run after this person and take charge of things themselves. Now, this may result in more problems such as the police being called. Just think how that looks when people hear that a 'Christian' was caught fighting in the street. The believer is shamed and God is not very happy. From thereon, you have a bad reputation and it's hard for people to see Jesus in you. It is far better to forgive them and leave the rest to God, He will respond (Romans 12:19) but it may be in a way that you didn't expect.
When we forgive someone, we must be prepared to let it go - forgive and forget. If you don't, it's possible that every now and again, the devil will remind you of what happened and you respond to this as well. Total forgiveness is needed here or otherwise you will start holding grudges against this person.
All in all. forgiveness is the way forward. When we forgive someone it sets them free from what they have done and, it releases us from the burden. We feel freedom. So, do you need to forgive someone today. If you have someone to forgive and, if it is at all possible, why not contact them and apologise for whatever it was. It takes wisdom to do this because some people may have a psychological open wound that has never been healed. So therefore, discuss it with God and ask Him how this can be done.
If you don't know Jesus or, have fallen away, why not say this prayer right now
Lord Jesus, I have sinned. I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today. In Jesus' Name. Amen
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