A True Friend

• "A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."                 Proverbs 18:24    NKJV

  
  

  This verse says it all about real Christian love. When you consider these words, they describe the love that Jesus has for each of us. But there are friends and there are true friends, and 

  this scripture is describing this; a true friend will always be there for us, no matter what.

  Bible Gateway gives a good example below:

  Depth of Friendship:

  The proverb contrasts the superficiality of many companions with the deep and enduring quality of a true friend. It suggests that real friendship is not merely about shared experiences or familiarity, but about a bond built on trust, loyalty, and a deep commitment to one another. 
• Loyalty and Support:

  The phrase "sticks closer" implies a relationship where a friend remains steadfast in times of need, offering support and strength even in the face of adversity. This type of friendship can be a source of comfort and encouragement, going beyond the comfort of mere companionship. 
• Transcendence of Family Ties:

  The proverb suggests that the bond of a true friend can be stronger and more intimate than even the closest family ties, highlighting the unique power of chosen relationships. 
• Example of Christ:

  Some interpretations draw a parallel between this proverb and Jesus's relationship with his disciples, emphasizing his unwavering love and support. Jesus is seen as the ultimate friend who lays down his life for his friends, exemplifying the depth of loyalty and commitment described in the proverb. 
• Biblical Context:

  The proverb is rooted in biblical teachings, particularly Proverbs 18:24, which emphasizes the importance of choosing wise and reliable friends. 

In essence, "a friend sticks closer than a brother" serves as a reminder of the profound value of genuine friendship and the special bonds that can be forged through trust, loyalty, and a commitment to one another. 

Merely having large numbers of "friends" does not always mean having many deep, committed allies in times of need. In this context, a "man of many companions" suggests a person who seeks popularity and shallow relationships. When times are good, those kinds of associates can be a source of pride, or entertainment. But when times are rough, one finds out quickly who their true friends really are. Therefore, to have a good, reliable friend is something worth cherishing. However, to be a true friend is a two-way commitment and needs nurturing at times to maintain continuity, rather like our relationship needs this with Jesus.

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