Just don't say it!

"For we all stumble in many ways. If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is mature, able also to control the whole body."   James 3:3:2. CSB 

What we say and how we say it is an ongoing problem. This is why, teachers keep on preaching about this area and will have to carry on so doing, until we all get it right.

The tongue can be used to speak good things or speak evil. Most of the time, we have little control over what we say and, this is what needs to be changed and, quickly. The words we speak are like dynamite; in one way we can blow people apart, in another, we can win thousands for Jesus. So we need to have control over this dynamite. 

Our greatest enemy is our mouth and what comes out of it. Therefore we have to give our lips to God so that, He will give us life. Time and time again we speak that word too many and 'POW" the wrong kind of dynamite is ignited. To prove it, what about that telephone call you made to the person who upset you today? You were warned not to do it, but you knew best. Or perhaps, you were more subtle and sent the message via email packed full of punch. With both of these examples, dynamite was used to bring mayhem to the recipient. But now, you regret it, don't you?

When you have had these type of conversations with somebody, were you in control of your mouth? Did you stumble in what you said? Because this will determine the way ahead with this person. That little muscle in your mouth - the tongue -  has the power to speak good or evil; it has the ability to bring about devastation, destroying relationships all over the place. So, you must be in control. The outcome will be dynamite destruction or dynamite power. Check out Proverbs 15:2: 'The tongue of the wise makes knowledge attractive, but the mouth of fools blurts out foolishness.' A wise person is one who thinks before he speaks. He doesn't spout off in a frenzy and say words that can never be taken back. On the contrary, the words he speaks are well thought out and full of wisdom. This person knows the errors that can be caused by shooting from the hip. This person is mature and has leadership qualities. The person who blurts out words without thought can expect nothing but contention.

Be honest, which one are you:

(1) The one who shoots from the hip without thinking

(2) The wise person who thinks before they speak

God wants you to be mature in all you do or say so, if you are of the negative side of things, what are you going to do about this before it is too late and the dynamite has blown everything away from you, leaving you on your own?

Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen

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Stop being anxious

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God."    Philippians 4:6   NKJV 

You have got this to do and then that, but in between, you need to visit Tom, Dick or Harry. Then there is the shopping, cleaning, blog to write etc.etc. The list is endless and absolutely exhausting, and it all leads to anxiety and pressure. David Bowie and Queen had the hit song Under Pressure and this is how you can be if you don'r change things.

The Greek word for anxious means 'to be pulled in different directions.' One direction leads to hope the other, fear. This can all form a stranglehold on us and worry sets in. This can affect our health, with pains, aches, cancers, headaches and heart problems so, this needs to be addressed in the first instance.

You know what you should do, God has told you so many times, 'casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.' 1 Peter 5:7 and then, 'Cast your burden on the LORD, and He shall sustain you.' Psalm 55:22 and let's not forget, 'Commit your works to the LORD, and your thoughts will be established.' Proverbs 16:3. This last verse is a Hebrew picture of a camel fully loaded up in the hot desert. The word 'Commit' means to roll. Therefore, when it finally reaches its destination, it kneels and rolls over releasing the load from its back. Do you get the point? The camel rolls over to get the load off it's back, we do similar by, rolling over our load of worries and anxieties to God. We are saying, 'Lord, I can't handle these, please help.' and He does.

If we don't pray the problem won't go away. In situations like this, we don't have to get on our knees and utter lengthy prayers to God. A simple, 'HELP ME PLEASE' will suffice.

God will hear and because it is according to His will, He will help you through. There is absolutely no need to become anxious. What's the point? Your blood pressure shoots up, so does your BPM and your stress level rockets. Your smart watch, if you're wearing one, probably explodes with the impact. This way of living is definitely not recommended.

So, when the next period of potential stress comes your way - and it will believe me, you know what to do. Hand it all to God. This is not being irresponsible it is being sensible. If God says it, then do it!

Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen

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Give God your stony heart

"And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take out your stony stubborn heart and give you you a tender responsive heart."  Ezekiel 36:26  NLT 

Yesterday, we looked at God breathing new life into our dried up bones. Today, He wants to give you a new heart, a new spirit and take out your stony stubborn heart. When we say that God wants to put a new spirit within us, it is a new bounce to our spiritual walk. We already have the Holy Spirit within, if we are born again; but our own spirit, may be worn out or lacking any kind of power. God wants to change this, if you're willing. This is what He wanted to do for the Israelites when Jeremiah spoke with them.

You may be tired of letting God down each day and God offers a way out of this but, it will cost. It will mean giving up all those things that you know shouldn't be in your life. That's the hard bit. When we're in our home, we are literally behind closed doors and no one can see what we do or hear what we say. However, God does; there is no escape. So perhaps it is time for a spiritual check up.

King David underwent this after Nathan revealed to him that God knew of his adultery:  

'Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. 11 Do not cast me away from Your presence, and do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. 12 Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, and uphold me by Your generous spirit.'  Psalm 51:10-12. NKJV

We need to be cleansed from within, filling our hearts and spirits with new thoughts and desires. This can only come from a clean heart. We know when we have let God down badly, it can't be hidden and we begin to feel awful until we repent. So, when we keep doing the same things over and over, we need this deep cleansing and this can only come from God.

Make a check list of all the things that you fall down on and pray Psalm 51:10-12 through as you do. Repent and ask for God's mercy and grace to help you over this hurdle, and speak life to your body. Remember, you will be praying according to God's will so this is His wish. Do this now and if you have drifted away from God or, you have never be born again, pray the prayer below for your salvation. 

Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen

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Are you completely dried out?

"They were scattered everywhere across the ground and were completely dried out." 

                                                                     v2 of  Ezekiel 37:1-14. NLT 

Ezekiel was given a vision of where he was placed in a Valley full of dry skeletons. This was a shameful examples of the bodies of Jews who had been left following a battle. It was shameful because these bodies were not washed, wrapped and buried, but just left for the vultures to eat. The Lord had warned Israel that this would happen because of their sin. Now, as  Ezekiel walked around these bones in the Spirit, he asked God if these bones could ever live again. 

Like these bones, we can become completely dried out in the Spirit because of sin, lack of teaching and lack of giving ourselves over to God, totally. If we don't read our bibles, we have no food. If we don't walk with Him, we are going nowhere. God replied to Ezekiel and told him to prophesy to these bones; and speak to the dryness asking for renewal. He did this and there came the sound of rattling bones as they joined together, and stood as an army with flesh and sinews, yet with no life. God then told Ezekiel to use the Hebrew word for wind -  ruah, which means wind, breath and Spirit and speak life to this army and life was regained with power. 

We all have dry periods where we just don't hear God and feel far away from Him. However, this must be limited because the evil one will use these times for his own advantage. When we do feel this way, or indeed, meet someone who does, we need to take action and speak to the dryness in Jesus' name. We need to speak life and renewal to them bringing life back to their walk, as Jesus puts it in John 6:63 'The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life.'

Don't be fooled, we can look life-like as this army were but remember, they had no life in them and, sometimes you will be the same and others you meet. So perhaps it's time to sharpen up our faith and use it as Jesus has told us to. We have the power to speak life into things that we come up against, not just people but situations

Therefore, don't allow yourself to become dry, encourage yourself and others (Ephesians 4:29), and walk in boldness and power with Jesus.

Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen

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Envy, jealousy and hurt pride. Part 2

'Jesus said, 'Anyone who is not against you, is for you."   Luke 9:50  NLT 

Carrying on from yesterday, let's delve into this further. Not everyone will be your favourite person. We have friends and we have people that we like and tolerate and sadly there are a few that we don't go near. But the person that makes you feel jealous and envious is the difficult one. For instance, this person may be delegated the role of House Group leader for the group that you attend. How will you handle that, would you leave or remain? If you did the former, you would need a valid reason for doing this; just because you don't like them would not really be the answer; your pastor would soon have something to say about reconciling this. If you chose to stay in the group, how would you work that one? You would have a choice to make and that would be, give the person the benefit of the doubt, in which you may find that the person is not too bad. The other part of the choice would be to be stubborn, refusing to believe anything that this person says and just glaring at them. 

You may well be in a situation at this moment where someone has been made an elder or house group leader and you are getting all wound up about it. You may say, 'Of all the people, why has he/she been put in this position?' The answer to this is because God wanted it. So are you going to argue with God and tell Him He made the wrong choice? Of course you won't. Really you need to look within yourself and determine what it is that is causing you this feeling. Is it jealousy or envy? Has this person hurt you in the past? Or is it just a clash of personalties? It needs to be resolved, otherwise it will destroy your walk with God. 

If there is a history between you and this person, perhaps you need to meet and talk it through and hopefully find reconciliation. If not, it may be the right thing to find another church, but this must be the last resort. There may not be history between you and it may just be friction on your part. Look at Jesus' comments above: 'Anyone who is not against you, is for you.'

Do you know this person? Have you tried to get to know him/her? Perhaps this should be the first place to start. Sadly, we can't always resolve personality issues but, we can overcome them by being more like Jesus. Anyway, you don't go to church or home groups to be like this person, you go to be more like Jesus and, this is what you should do.

You may not ever get through to some people but, you can overcome any rough edges by showing them Jesus. Remember that!

Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen

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