"They came to Him, bringing a paralytic who was carried by four men" v3
Mark 2:1-12
People all over the world are hurting and struggling over personal matters. These include leaders in the church. However, some leaders find it difficult to admit this fact because they feel that it displays weakness. Therefore, they tell the few that they can trust and then, soldier on as if everything is ok. But you know! You know what they are going through and how they are becoming broken inside by something that they cannot 'fix'.
Whether it's a leader in the church, a member of the church or some other believer, they all have something in common. They need help. But before you go in with open bibles, prayers and prophecies, stop and ponder about it and, decide in your heart, with God, what would be of help for them. It's unlikely that they want continuous words of wisdom and endless prayers all of the time. This is helpful and they're grateful; but how can you really help?
Quite a few years ago, the Christian country singer, Glen Campbell wrote and sang this:
Try a little kindness
If you see your brother standing by the road
with a heavy load, from the seeds he sowed.
And if you see your sister falling by the way
Just stop and say, 'You're going the wrong way.'
You've got to try a little kindness
yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see.
And if you try a little kindness
then you'll overcome the blindness
of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets.
Copyright Glen Campbell
The person we're discussing is carrying a heavy load and, he or she, are your brother or your sister. They need carrying at the moment, because all of their emotional and physical energy has been absorbed in their painful predicament. How can you help? Well, a cooked meal can be handy, something they can put in the fridge or freezer and used for quick access.
A card sent can be a healer, especially when they realise how much they are loved and valued. You have no answers, so don't try to give them any. Just be there for them if they ask for this. Prayer obviously is a must. This is one way that we can carry someone's load. Don't desert them in their hour of need but, alternatively, don't swamp them with telephone calls or visits - give them some space.
This kindness and love is what it is all about. We all need carrying at times. It may be you one day. Therefore, sow the seed of love and support, anyway that you can.
Copyriight 2020 Grahame Howard
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