Watch the finger-pointing

"Then Peter, turning around, saw the disciple whom Jesus loved following, who also had leaned on His breast at the supper, and said, “Lord, who is the one who betrays You?” 21Peter, seeing him, said to Jesus, “But Lord, what about this man?”

                                                                                   John 21:20-21 NKJV

John had a deep relationship with Jesus. This was built on trust and this description highlights a special bond between Jesus and John. This suggested a level of intimacy and trust beyond that of the other disciples. Let us not forget though, that Peter, John and James were like the inner circle of Jesus' friends. However, John had that little extra because He spent more time with Jesus, and from the cross, Jesus had asked him to take care of His mother, Mary following His death. Here on earth, it is not unusual for people to have 'Best Friends,' it just happens and perhaps John filled this category. There was definitely no favouritism or hidden agenda here as some believers and unbelievers have discussed in the past. If there was, it would make a mockery of all that Jesus was building here on earth.

It's interesting to see that John doesn't mention his own name, just 'the disciple that Jesus loved.' This shows the humility of the man. He didn't want loud trumpets being played because of their friendship. People are people and, will discuss anything that can promote a scandal. 

If there isn't anything to talk about, they'll find something and the gossip begins. One can see this often in the media where rumours are escalated until they are world news. We must admit, that if people are acting wrong, it needs to be exposed, especially people in strategic positions. However, a lot of it is bad journalism where a top story must be found on this politician, film star or music legend. Facebook is getting very very much like this with certain posts about well-known people. They try to encourage a person to click on the page to find out something that you 'couldn't possibly believe.' This type of stuff can ruin a person's profile.

It must be said that Peter looked to have a jealousy problem when He met with Jesus after the crucifixion and resurrection. Following his re-commissioning by Jesus, he saw John and pointed him out saying, 'But Lord, what about this man?' Jesus replied, 'If I will that he remains till I come, what is that you? You follow Me.'  v21-22. Peter almost blew it again following his restoration. There was a little bit of rivalry at this time but, nothing that would prevent the Gospel being spread around the world. Jesus made it clear to Peter by saying 'You never mind about him or anyone else. You, just do what I say. I'll take care of the rest.'

So there we have it, don't look for what isn't there' Watch the temptation to be envious or jealous of someone and watch the finger-pointing about other people.

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