Don't limit God

"Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, 21 to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen"   Ephesians 4:20-21   NKJV 

We can limit God by only asking for the most basic of things that we need or would like. God is our Father and, like a loving father, He wants to give us things to bless us. He knows what we need and He knows what we would like. We will not get into His bad books for asking Him for a new car, new house or the latest technology that has recently arrived on the market. 

The words 'Exceedingly abundantly,' are interesting ones. The root word 'exceed' is defined as 'to go beyond what is allowed or stipulated.' 'Abundant' is defined as 'existing or available in large quantities; having plenty of.' Therefore, put these explanations into these two verses and, we see how much God wants to bless us.

We can never ask too much from God. He doesn't look on us as being greedy, He loves us. However, He not give us everything that we want or what we ask for but, that doesn't mean that we shouldn't ask. We've all asked our parents in the past for extravagant things and sometimes we may have received them, but not always. But they gave us what they thought was best for us and also, what they could afford. With God, He is the richest of the richest but, that doesn't mean He'll give us mansions, sleek sports cars or a solid gold laptop. 

He knows what we think, and therefore, he is aware of what is on our wish list. This may be the latest MacBook or iMac. Things may be tight for you to go out and buy these items but, that doesn't stop you from yearning for one of them. You can ask God for these and if you believe what this scripture says, 'according to the power that works in us,' you can put your faith into action and leave it in God's hands. He may answer this prayer and supply you with your request; but, if He doesn't, He may show you a way that you can obtain one and possibly much cheaper.

He's your Father; He cares for you and will bless you. You're not being greedy by asking God for extravagant things. So don't limit Him in anything. He is able to give you more than you can ask or think. That in itself is amazing. Don't limit Him in the job He can give you or that special promotion you have been seeking. If He wants you to have it, its yours.

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Put things right - quickly

"And don't sin by letting anger control you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry 27 For anger gives a foothold to the devil."   Ephesians 4:26-27   NLT

We all give way to anger at times. However, if we allow the anger to remain, then we are setting ourselves up to be controlled by the devil. It's quite normal for people to become frustrated with each other, especially married couples. As Christians, our marriages should be dedicated to God and we walk, talk and pray together so that we are in fellowship. When anger comes along, the devil is ready to drive a wedge between us and we find it very difficult to even whisper to each other, let alone pray and walk in harmony. 

It is the same with Christian brothers and sisters. We can often dispute what the other is saying and, this can lead to strong words being uttered, and straightaway, there is division.

Paul encourages a speedy reconciliation; as I've said, we all become angry at times but that is the time that we need to take action. If we blurt words out without first thinking about the consequences, we can cause problems. Venting our anger is always a bad course to take. Alternatively, bottling things up within can be rather like a tin of coke that has been shaken. Leave the top on and it is ok, take it off and it spurts out all over the place. We need to be careful what we say or don't say.

When we have a problem with what someone has said, the best way to handle it is to speak with that person, but in a soft way, not with hostility. Note what Proverbs 15:1 says:

'A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare"

Raging words will only cause the listener to defend themselves and either, retaliate with equally raging words or gentle ones. It is difficult to argue with someone who only chooses to be gentle to your approach. So choose your words very carefully.

Whatever you do, do not let things fester overnight. Wherever it is possible, seek peace as early as possible otherwise, the devil has a habit of whispering things to further stir you up and, he can be very convincing. It is different with someone who doesn't live with you. You can always get away. But when it is your spouse, things can become very difficult if one partner will not give in and is intent to go for the throat. (This doesn't happen in Christian marriages, surely?) Oh yes it does and, because you live under the same roof, things can become like a war zone. 

Therefore, ensure that you settle disputes quickly and refuse the temptation to keep the argument going. Remember, Jesus is watching and listening but, He will not become involved. Is the high blood pressure, sleepless nights and bad language worth it? Put things right - quickly!

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The Dysfunctional Family

"One day when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau arrived home from the wilderness exhausted and hungry. 30Esau said to Jacob, “I’m starved! Give me some of that red stew!” (This is how Esau got his other name, Edom, which means “red.”)31“All right,” Jacob replied, “but trade me your rights as the firstborn son.” 32“Look, I’m dying of starvation!” said Esau. “What good is my birthright to me now?” 33But Jacob said, “First you must swear that your birthright is mine.” So Esau swore an oath, thereby selling all his rights as the firstborn to his brother, Jacob"   Genesis 25: 29-33   NLT

There was a parenting problem within the household because Issac loved Esau better than Jacob because he brought Issac tasty red meat which they ate together. However, Issac's wife, Rebekah, had Jacob as her favourite. This led to divided loyalties. This was a trait within the family and, Jacob would choose to act in the same way in his own family in future years, with favouring Joseph. This is something that parents should always avoid. Favouritism can lead to jealousy and deceit within the family and causes individuals psychological hang-ups in later life.

As the twins grew up, Esau, the hunter, would be out capturing game which he brought back home. Jacob on the other hand had a quiet temperament and liked to stay at home most of the time. This was the scene one day. Esau was out on a hunt and Jacob was cooking some very tasty red stew. When Esau returned home, the aroma of the food captured him and he asked Jacob if he could have some because he was starving. Jacob, being devious, told him he could have some if, he traded his birthright for the food. Esau replied, 'Look, I'm dying of starvation; what good is my birthright to me now?' Jacob insisted that Esau swear that the birthright was his and He would have the whole of the rights as the first born son. Unbelievably, Esau agreed and for a pot of stew gave Jacob the rights to this inheritance.

Esau had acted on impulse after smelling the stew and wanted instant satisfaction. He never considered the future consequences this would cause, he just acted on impulse. We, like Esau, can fall into a similar trap when we see something and want it no matter what the cost. If we do, it can be very satisfying. However, the satisfaction can turn into regret, guilt, heartache and total devastation when the satisfaction has worn off and we come to our senses.

Be very careful in this area. Things can be very tempting and, when we are hooked, we hardly ever count the cost, until the yearning has worn off and we are faced with 

reality. This could be sexual temptation but, not always. The yearning for something can come in all shapes and sizes, especially when you are led on by someone who is very persuasive. 

A lot of this behaviour, had been forced upon each of them because of inadequate parenting. When kids know the boundaries and parents stick to them, whatever may happen; a harmony is developed and each party know the rules of the home.

Bottom line? Keep you family protected by regular prayer and advice.

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The 'Particular and Recurring Sin'

"let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us"   Hebrews 12:1   NKJV

Imagine wearing a backpack crammed full of unnecessarily heavy things as you walk around. There comes a time when you are worn out because of the sheer weight digging into your back. All you want to do is take it off. Once you do, the relief is amazing. Now picture yourself carrying the weight and the sin of your world upon your shoulders. The relief can be very much the same. 

This piece of scripture doesn't define any particular sin but, many believe that it is the sin of unbelief. This could well be true and would account for the times when, because of our 'Particular and Recurring Sin', we feel so far away from Jesus.

What is your Particular and Recurring Sin? We all have at least one. This type of sin is the one that you just can't stop, no matter our hard you try. It has you in its jaws. This is why the writer of Hebrews called it, 'the sin which so easily ensnares us.' This Particular and Recurring Sin can trip you up at a moments notice. This is probably how King David fell for the charms of Bathsheba. Instead of being where he should have been - at war, he was lounging around on his roof and he spotted her sunbathing. His eyes saw her, his heart raced and his lust was kindled and we know the rest. His Particular and Recurring Sin won the day.

We need endurance together with the power of Jesus to be able to overcome this trap; and even when we have, it will still keep on trying to hook you. This is why your endurance needs to be put into action. It is the act of withstanding hardship or stress; the knowledge of when the going gets tough, the tough get going. The SAS' motto is 'Who Dares Wins,' and this is their version of endurance. It's beating your body and your mind into surrender (1Cor 9:26-27). But it doesn't come easy. There are many mistakes before you can say your have overcome this area and when this happens, it can start again. So don't think you are standing safe. Thank goodness for Jesus' work of grace in Philippians 1:6: 'being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you, will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.' Thanks to Jesus, this is our work of grace. We need to look up - not give up. This is your Daily Life with Jesus.

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Cast it all on Jesus

"Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."   1 Thessalonians 5:16-18   NKJV

Sometimes, our lives can be very problematic and it feels like the problems of the world have invaded our minds. If it's not one thing, it is another. One after another these problems present themselves to us and it can be so overwhelming to be able to cope with them.

So therefore stop trying so hard. Peter tells us: 'Casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you'  1 Peter 5:7. This doesn't mean we use Jesus has a crutch. What it does mean is, we are to allow Jesus to take the pressure out of every bad situation and let Him show us an easier way. He doesn't erase every bad thing that comes along but, He will become involved if you let Him. This is why we are directed to rejoice - always, not now and again but, through all situations, good or bad. 

We have our prayer line connected directly to His heavenly switchboard. There is no, 'Your call is special to us, so stay on the line and press the star button when directed.' Not at all, our call is answered by Jesus every time we call to Him. Our will is to rejoice in Him, pray to Him and give Him thanks. As we do this, we are blessed and built up in His Spirit.

What are you struggling with at this time? Well you have the formula right here. Don't be tempted to throw a wobbly when things go pear-shaped, instead follow the formula very carefully. It will work because it is God's plan and He never lies. He may make you wait because He watches how you react. As He sees you comply, He puts the next bit into operation. The old saying, 'Rome wasn't built in a day,' is quite right here. God never races ahead. He has no stress; He knows the answer and the outcome before it has ever happened. So if He has it all worked out, surely then, there is no need to worry or panic. God is in charge.

Cast all of your care upon Him, not a bit of it. Just trust Him to help you right now - yes you!. He knows what is happening to you and His word is 'Don't worry, all will be well.'

So just relax and follow the formula

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The Weakest Link

“Then he showed me Joshua the high priest standing before the Angel of the Lord, and Satan standing at his right hand to oppose him. 2 And the Lord said to Satan, 'The Lord rebuke you, Satan! The Lord who has chosen Jerusalem rebuke you! Is this not a brand plucked from the fire?' 3 Now Joshua was clothed with filthy garments and was standing before the Angel. 4 Then He answered and spoke to those who stood before Him saying, 'Take away the filthy garments from him.' And to him He said, 'See, I have removed your iniquities from you, and I will clothe you with rich robes."  

                         Zechariah 3:1-4 NKJV

Zechariah saw Joshua, clothed in filthy garments, standing before the Lord, with Satan standing beside him full of accusation. Most of which Satan says are lies, but at times he is correct, especially when he accuses us before God. He has an accusatory spirit and loves to get us into trouble. In one way, we can also say that he is a 'tell tale'. 

The scene that day in heaven, would have been rather like a court scene, with Joshua as the defendant, God the judge, Satan the prosecutor and Jesus as the defence barrister. Satan is our accuser when we are charged with sin; Jesus, our advocate, represents us before the throne of God at such times. God, the judge, knows how Satan works, He has had much experience of His crafty, accusatory and twisted ways and, like here, He rebukes Him following the pleas from our defence lawyer, Jesus. Thank goodness for this.

Satan will have us believe that we are weaklings, in fact he will try and place the derogatory label of The Weakest Link, upon us and point the finger putting a strain on the whole of our testimony. But let us remember that it is ok to be weak, because when we are, then we are strong, because we have Jesus on our side.

In 2 Corinthians 12, we see how Paul had the most amazing experience of being in heaven and viewing the wonders that were there. Not long afterwards though, he is being buffeted by a thorn in his side which he pleaded to have taken from him, but was unsuccessful. At this time he knew what it felt to be weak and also realised that God can allow certain burdens to come upon us to prevent us becoming too proud because of the many blessings we receive. But, Jesus spoke to Paul and said, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.' v9. Paul came to the conclusion that when he felt weakness, he was really strong v10.

Never allow yourself to feel the negative implications that you are The Weakest Link. You are not, it is a lie and derogatory arrow that Satan fires at you. When you feel weakness however, and you will, praise God because, when you are weak, through Jesus, you are strong. Did I hear an Amen?

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Have you heard the voice?

"And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; 12and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice."

                                    1 Kings 19:11-12  NKJV

The world continues to rage with great windstorms, earthquakes and blazing fires, devastating everything in its past. People are forced out of their homes, many killed and injured leaving a mighty question - 'Why?' Notice the phrase: 'the Lord was not in the - wind, earthquake, fire'.  This was used three times for each disaster. But God was not in any of them. He had not caused these this day. He was in the still small voice - a major difference.

Yes, God does use powerful and miraculous ways to bring people to Him. But to only look for Him at Gospel Outreaches and 'alive' churches all over the place may not be what he wants for you at the time. At these places, there may be dynamic preaching and displays of the supernatural, but you may miss Him because He just wants to whisper His loving Words to you in peaceful surroundings. Sometimes, it does us good to just sit and wait on God to speak. There is nothing wrong with lively churches and pounding worship. However, on occasions it may be more beneficial to listen for the still small voice. It may be the answer to what you have been searching for.

Are you listening for God? Life is very busy, with work, families, church life to mention a few. Sometimes there seems no time for hobbies or just to be with yourself. Why don't you cut yourself some slack and determine to find the time. It can be done with a few alterations to your agenda. Some people get up earlier for this reason. It's difficult at first but, your body gets used to it after a time. If you've a dog, when you're out on a walk, ask God to speak to you and listen to Him. There's no need to speak, just let Him speak to you. You will benefit from it!

When was the last time you heard His still small voice? If it was a while, then do something about it today. Elijah was depressed and full of self pity when God spoke with Him. It gave Him the boost that He needed; and it will you as well.

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