Are you Irritable?

"(LOVE)  -  is not irritable"     1 Corinthians 13:5   CSB 

When we wear some type of clothing, it can tend to irritate our skin, and if we don't rectify this, our skin can be very sore. It's the same with some leather shoes or boots. Perhaps the leather is of good quality and very stiff. It needs breaking in before we can use them regularly. Maybe some parts of our car can begin to rub against some other component because a rubber washer or spacer has worn out. This can cause excessive damage. 

All three of these examples can rub against each other and this can cause wear and tear. When there is something in our lives that cause us irritability it can rub us up the wrong way and friction can be caused. This can lead to arguments and anger.

Paul says that love is not irritable. At times we become irritated by certain people but, we don't really know why. They just tend to rub us up the wrong way. We can become irritable with ourselves when things don't turn out the way we had hoped. We can be fixated on something and begin to have such a determination to achieve some task that we become like a perfectionist. We need to remember that there is only one who is perfect and that, is Jesus. 

Did you realise that a root of perfectionism is fear? It's true, the perfectionist strives to get everything done perfectly and may ignore other things in life to achieve this. It can become so intense that they are fearful that if they don't live up to their intentions,  others will think they are a failure. This in itself can lead to irritability.

In our relationships, especially our marriage, if we're not careful, we can leave people out of things because we are so wrapped up in what we are doing. This can mean that we treat them like, they don't exist. This again, can lead to irritability. We need to remember that we are all different. You may like something that someone else doesn't. This doesn't mean it is wrong, But it becomes that way if the other one causes a problem over it. It leads to being irritable. 

Irritability is akin to being grumpy, something we can all be at times - (ask my wife). So we need to target that area and train ourselves to not be this way. It will take practice but it is achievable. Write down in your bible, as a reminder, "I will not be irritable!"

If you don't know Jesus or, have fallen away, why not say this prayer right now:

'Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen'

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Record of wrongs

"(LOVE) - and it keeps no record of being wronged."   1 Corinthians 13:5   NLT

This is an area in which we all have to be careful of. Be honest, how many records have you kept of people that have wronged you? Two books full? six or even a whole library of them? You may laugh, but we shouldn't be doing this. 'Yes, but you don't know what they did to me.' No, I don't, but God does so let Him sort this for you. 'It makes me angry when I think about it.' Well stop thinking about it, then you won't be so angry. It's not as easy as that.' It is if you want it to be. It's a choice, one we all have to make. 

What did Jesus do when He was being tortured by the soldiers before His crucifixion? What did He do and say when He hung on the cross? 'Father forgive them because they know not what they're doing.' We all have choices; we can either choose to write it down in our Record of Wrongs, seething with anger and revenge every time we read it. Or, we can choose to forget it because, it is not edifying us when we think about such things. It is making a decision that no matter how wronged we have been, it is of no use to us. It is holding us back because it burns within us. Making the decision to cast it away from us and towards Jesus, is the most sensible of things we can do.

When you do this or consider it, you may be bombarded by all the reasons you shouldn't ever forget what was done to you. You have been used and abused, made a laughing stock and hurt to the core. Why should you forget this? Why should you let someone off the hook? Because, it is holding you back and let's face it, Jesus wants you to forgive and that means not rising to the bait when it comes into your thoughts again - which it may do. Be mindful of one thing, who is actually doing this to you? Who is making your life a misery by keeping the wound open? The person that hurt you isn't. They may have died and yet the memory is still there. It's the devil and he doesn't want you to let anyone off the hook. If you let him, he will reduce you to a bundle of hopelessness. This is not God's best for you, is it? Therefore, rise up and decide to dispose of the record of wrongs from now on. And start living live to the full; start living your life as Jesus intends. Hold your head up high and make your Daily Life with Jesus count.

If you don't know Jesus or, have fallen away, why not say this prayer right now:

'Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen'

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It's time to saddle up

"If racing against mere men makes you tired, how will you race against horses?"  

                                                                Jeremiah 12:5   NLT 

Life can be difficult at times. One minute, we think that we have succeeded in something, the next, we find we are way off target. It's like being at the bottom of a mine shaft and somehow you manage to climb up. As you reach the top and are just going to lift a leg to get hold of the ground, you slip back down to the bottom again. Frustrating? You bet it is and you need all your willpower to keep going.

Jeremiah was wishing he had remained a priest; this way he would have had an easier life than a prophet. But a prophet he was to continue and would be battling with the Jordan countryside including jungles with wild animals. In prayer with God, he mentioned his complaints and observations and God's answer is our text today: 'If racing against mere men makes you tired, how will you race against horses?" In other words, it was like God was saying 'If you think this is bad, how are you going to cope when it gets really tough.' 

Not the kind of response Jeremiah was looking for, but God doesn't always answer us the way we expected Him to.

Like we read the other day, in 'Walking through Mud' (8th Dec) "You've walked through thick mud; Jesus walked along a dirt path carrying His own cross. You have been mistreated, badly; Jesus suffered the worst mistreatment ever. He died an agonising death but, what did He say, 'Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do'  Luke 23:34." We made a choice to follow Jesus - a commitment, Jesus didn't force us, we said 'Yes' to Him so, we can hardly back out now or complain because we're getting our hands dirty. We're soldiers, and soldiers have it tough but get the job done no matter what. We are the same- God's soldiers, therefore we have to toughen up.

Think of it this way, if you are going through a rough time at present, you are in training and you must dig your heels in. God will help you but, it is never easy. But, do you know something? God always picks the best - the elite, and this is what you are. He has faith in you; He knows that you can do this. So grit your teeth, Jesus is right beside you, saddle up, get on your horse and race off to where God is sending you. 

You are the elite!

If you don't know Jesus or, have fallen away, why not say this prayer right now:

'Lord Jesus, I have sinned and I ask you to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. Please come into my heart, fill me with Your Spirit and give me a brand new start today.

In Jesus' Name. Amen'

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