Have you turned into a busybody?

 "For we hear that there are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all, but are busybodies'  2 Thessalonians 3:11   NKJV

There are some people who are more concerned in what other people are doing than taking a look at their own life. It's so easy to judge people and gossip about them. Some people will go here and there just to find out what is happening in a person'a life and will then leave and, in the name of prayer, will discuss other people's business. This is something that we need to avoid. It doesn't matter what other people are doing or what they have said. the only thing God is interested in, is what you are doing.

We are all susceptible to rumours and can easily listen eagerly to what is going on in the next street. However, we need to be aware that God is listening as well and wants us to mow our own grass, not someone else's. You may come up against this type of thing; if you do, how do you deal with it? It's alway best to shut down the gossip. How one does this is to:

Refuse to add to the gossip but actually challenge the person who is gossiping by saying, 'Should we be talking about this? Isn't it gossip?' You may not be popular in saying this but, how would Jesus handle it? He most certainly would not become involved in talking about someone else in such a way. Gossip can destroy a person, it can also destroy a ministry or divide a church. It is serious stuff so, it must be stopped. Check out this scripture: 'A gossip goes around telling secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence.' Proverbs 11:13. Again in Ephesians 4:29 we read: 'Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearer.' When someone shares a confidential matter with a person, it should remain confidential, to gossip about it is so wrong it is breaking the trust the person had in you in the first place and also, betraying them

The words that we speak should build up our hearers, not drag them down. Our words should minister grace to each other to draw others to Jesus. Satan, likes to operate in the opposite way and encourages words that will slander people and situations. This is why challenging gossip is so important. There is no need to enter into an argument with anyone who tries to gossip in your presence; just let them know that you are not willing to talk this way and explain why.

A gossip is a busybody, they have to know other people's business. You know who they are so, perhaps it is better to avoid them unless, of course, you are willing to challenge their behaviour.

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It's never over until God says it is over

"Even though the fig trees have no blossoms, and there are no grapes on the vine; even though the olive crop fails, and the fields lie empty and barren; even though the flocks die in the fields, and the cattle barns are empty, 18 yet I will rejoice in the LORD! I will be joyful in the the God of my salvation!

                                                                 Habakkuk 3:17-18  NLT 

Even though this would be a great burden, Habakkuk affirmed that he would still rejoice in the God of his salvation. And he meant it; his feelings were not controlled by what was happening around him but, his faith in God's ability to give him the strength to cope with it all and supply what he would need for the future. He knew God would not let him down.

And you too need to remember this. You may have had a great loss - a business venture, house or your health is failing, but God is still with you and will help you through if you will let Him. Things may be bad at this time but you will bounce back, it is never over until God says it is over.

The secret is that you need to take your eyes off what is happening and put them on to God. Yes, that is difficult and you may not want to do that at this time but, it is so necessary for your survival. Notice here that the things Habakkuk mentioned are all replaceable. In today's terms, he could well have been talking about bankruptcy or close to it. However, he knew in his heart that they were only worldly things and God could give him better. Yes, it was a challenge but achievable; it was a loss that, with hard work, determination and a great plan from God, something good could come out of it. Again, as I mentioned before, it is the outlook that determines the outcome. If you just give up and say, 'I've had enough,' that is ok but, with a negative attitude such as that, you will never reach your full potential. Mountains like giants will come before you as you go about your everyday life but hey, you and God are giant-killers. With God, no Goliath will stop you.

Is God still on the Throne in your life? If He is, then seek Him and allow Him to show you the next step in your life. Rather like a book, chapters come to an end and a new one begins. This may be where you are today - beginning a new chapter and it may be scary. But take that negative feeling away and replace it with excitement - everything is exciting when God's at work. You’re a giant-slayer facing a new chapter and challenge. Allow the excitement to build up and take God's hand, but remember to fasten your seat belt because it may be a bumpy ride, but you will get there! It's never over until God says it is.

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Is it pay back time?

"So David crept forward and cut off a piece of the hem of Saul's robe."   

                                                                     1 Samuel 24:4   NLT

David had a great opportunity to get Saul out of his life forever. David and his men had been hiding from Saul in a cave when, all of a sudden Saul came in to relieve himself. Because of his jealousy, Saul was intent on killing David and had been searching for him following his battle with the Philistines. David's men encouraged him to take the opportunity to kill Saul but, he chose differently and crept up behind him and cut off a piece of his robe. David's reason was, Saul was God's anointed (v6), and he could not hurt what God had put into place. There's a lesson here, you may not like a particular leader of a church; they may be doing everything that you and others feel is wrong but, that person is still God's anointed. He has put that person in place and He will deal with what is wrong, not you, whether you like it or not, that person is God's anointed one so, be careful.

David chose a better way by cutting off part of Saul's robe, he would later be able to show Saul how he had spared his life. There are times when people will hurt you, whether it be by accident or intentional. The natural reaction is to want to retaliate but, what good would that do? You would be falling to their level but, more importantly, you would be preventing God from working on your behalf. Romans 12:19-21 plainly tells us that we should not take revenge, God will do that on our behalf. He is far better at this kind of thing than we are. So, if someone wrongs you, don't fall into an argument that may lead to a brawl; instead, give it to God and let Him sort it out for you.

For most people, this can be difficult. But, with discipline, it can be achieved. There are a lot of Christians who, when they think back, wish they had done this in the past. Don't be one of them, avoid being overrun with guilt and regret. Keep a tight rein on your mouth and be in control. We are told to be alert and ready, but this means to do things God's way, not to be a vigilante. 

In closing, what are your reactions like? Are you in control of them. Remember what James said in verse one: 'You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry'  James 1:19. NLT. This is a great place to start and one of those verses that you need to hang on to. If you do, you are well on the way to improving your reactions.

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Smile your way through trials

"Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy."      James 1:2   NLT 

Charlie Chaplin, the great film star, was also a composer of music and penned quite a few classics over his life time. One of them, along with Geoffrey Parsons and John Turner went like this:

Smile though your heart is aching

Smile even though it's breaking

When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by

If you smile through your fear and sorrow

Smile and maybe tomorrow

You'll see the sun come shining through for you

if you just smile

When we put these words together with the above text, there is a connection - joy. James doesn't say if trouble comes your way but, when it does. The point here is not to pretend to be happy when we face pain but to have a positive outlook (Consider it an opportunity for great joy), because of what troubles can produce in our lives. James tells us to turn our problems into a time of learning because, tough times can teach us perseverance.

Warren W Wiersbe writes: 'Outlook determines outcome and attitude determines action.' It is how we receive such troubles in our life. We can either have a crisis and fall into great fear or, face the trouble and determine our way forward. There is always a way out, Jesus will ensure there is. It just takes a bit of finding.

Ask yourself, what is the point of getting into a complete state, losing your peace and consequently, getting yourself into such a panic that you can't even hear God? I know it is difficult, I've been there many times and not always took the positive route. It is how we view the situation; it can either consume you or you consume it and the only way you will be able to consume it is with the Joy of the Lord, because this is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10).

Troubles, if we allow them, can completely disarm us. Obviously, it depends on the severity of them but, all of them are not what we were expecting. Sometimes we can change the situation, sometimes we can't. We just have to take the rough with the smooth. But there really is a way through them, especially when we face them with the joy and strength of the Lord.

Therefore today, whatever you are facing, seek God's help, look at the outlook and determine that the outcome will be positive no matter what. Get your attitude in line with with God's power and forge a way forward in victory and triumph.This is what people do in their Daily Walk with Jesus.

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Pay attention

"My child, pay attention to what I say. Listen carefully to my words. 21 Don't lose sight of them. Let them penetrate deep into your heart, 22 for they bring life to those who find them, and healing to their whole body."   Proverbs 4:20-22   NLT

One of my biggest faults at school was not listening to what the teacher was saying. I would drift off into my own world, oblivious to what was going on around me. Often, the teacher would notice this and ask me what I thought about what he was saying. I would splutter out a load of garbage and it was obvious that I had not been listening. I really had to work hard to catch up. This followed me into University, and many are the times that I would have to ask a friend what the tutor had been saying about some topic or other. My attention span was zilch and to a degree still is.

Many of us are like this; we are not all diagnosed with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), but we have so much going on in our heads that it is hard to focus. How many times have you been in church and haven't a clue what the preacher was talking about? This is something that we need to keep in check. Another area is reading, we can read a chapter and not have a clue what we have just read and, therefore, have to regress to the beginning again. 

Solomon, in these three verses above, encourages us to pay attention to what is being said and, this includes reading. He tells us that we need to listen carefully and not lose sight or fail to hear, what is being said. The words need to penetrate our hearts because they are life to us and healing to our whole body. In other words, they are full of wisdom and wisdom will lead us on to better things - a job, university place and whatever else. 

When we read the bible, we need to realise that the words we are reading are holy, powerful and bring life and healing to us. They are the Word of the Lord and  do we need to hear those. This is why reading our bible is paramount to whatever else we may read or do. If we don't read it and contain it in our hearts, we will miss out on what God is saying to us. He has the answer to what you are worrying about. He has the answer to what happened to your dream and why certain things have happened to you. The Word of God is our food and we need to eat it every day and not only that, we need to study it, so that we get a good picture of what is happening. Buy yourself a decent copy of the bible, one which is understandable but accurate as well. 

Ask God to help you concentrate, I have to and it works. Push yourself to grasp hold of what is being said, get a decent bible commentary to help explain the passage and learn to always pay attention whenever someone is speaking to you or, if you are reading something, especially your bible.

You haven't got ADD, you just need to discipline your whole mind and allow God to penetrate every inch of your life.

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You'll never be forgiven now

"But if we confess our sins to Him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness."    I John 1:9   NLT 

How many times have you heard the statement that God won't forgive you now. This is a lie that the devil uses to completely disarm us in our tracks. We are human and, even though we belong to Jesus we continue to sin and will do until we are taken into heaven. However, the devil will try to convince us that we are wrong. It's almost like he tells us that there are small sins and big ones. We can just about get away with the small ones but, the big ones, No way Hosea. No, sin is sin.

The devil is a liar, always has been and always will be and a very convincing one too. He has the ability - if we allow him to - to make us feel so guilty and condemned that we fear that is it, we really have blown it this time. But we need to remember that, John was writing to believers when he penned this scripture. He was showing us, that, when we accepted Jesus we were forgiven for all of our sins there and then, and His death made the provision that when we sin - because we will do - He will forgive us as we confess it to Him.

There is no need to keep on asking Jesus to forgive us for something, He heard the first time and forgave us but, the lie that the devil spreads, makes it feel like we need to keep on saying we are sorry and seeking His forgiveness. When you think about this, we are assuming that God hasn't forgiven us and we should never feel that Jesus has denied us this. It's almost like saying His Word is a lie, and you know it isn't. Sometimes, we feel like the 'big sins' in our lives will still be with us when we die and go to heaven. Again, this is a lie. We are children of God and Jesus washed us in His blood. We are still open to commit sin and this is why we should always seek His forgiveness each day. 

The message for us today is that, we belong to Jesus, we are not yet perfect - far from it - but Jesus set you and I free. Therefore, when you commit sin, seek God straightaway and ask forgiveness and you will receive it. Remember this scripture; keep it in your heart and use it whenever you fall. You are forgiven

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The Back-Seat Driver

"The teachers of religious law and the Pharisees are the official interpreters of the law of Moses. 3 So practice and obey whatever they tell you, but don't follow their example. For they don't practice what they teach."   Matthew 23:2-3   NLT 

Here, Jesus was describing the Pharisees and declared that they were interpreters of the law of Moses. Therefore, He told His disciples to practice and do what they say but not to follow their example because, many of them were hypocrites and taught one thing but didn't live up to it themselves. They were a judgmental people and often insisted that man-made rules were equal with God's rules.

When you look through the Gospels you will see them condemning this and judging that and putting burdens upon people. Religion when it is used in this way, causes many problems and wars, throughout our world. Sadly, there are some Christians that put burdens upon their fellow believers, saying that their behaviour or dress is not in line with the Word of God or whatever.

In my early walk with Jesus, these type of people used to make me feel inferior because I was young and had little experience. Initially, this caused me a problem but I worked out that, when I mature, people like this will tell me I am too old. I decided not to try and people-please from thereon and concentrate on pleasing God. A far better plan.

We come up against all sorts of people and as long as they are honouring God, that is all we should be concerned about. Some people believe that they know everything and this can be difficult, especially when you are running a bible group. If you are not careful, they can take over. This reminds me of the old saying I've mentioned several times: 'If you let Satan into the back seat of your car, pretty soon he is going to want to drive.'

This leads me to back-seat drivers. We've probably all had to suffer this from time to time. You give someone a lift and very soon, they begin giving you instructions of where to park, what gear to drive in, watch your speed and you can't park there. You need wisdom and grace to deal with these people. I've often thought of stopping, telling them to get out and driving off. But that is not what Jesus would do, is it? 

The back-seat driver is just as difficult to deal with as the person who puts you down in church or tries to take over the teaching. Again, grace is called for and a zip on your mouth. It's true, we will never find a perfect person, I'm nowhere near that. Hey, watch it, neither are you. Joking aside, We have to practice what we preach. Our role model is Jesus, everything we do, should represent Jesus; not easy I know but, achievable. The Pharisees had the law of Moses but many didn't live it. We have God's Word and we are called to be ambassadors of Jesus Christ and, that means, putting up with back-seat drivers and people who know everything. Amen?

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