Be an Encourager

"Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up as you are already doing."  

                                                                              1 Thessalonians 5:11   CSB 

Everyone needs encouragement from time to time. Life can be difficult and demanding. It has the ability to drain us of all of our energy. When we get this far down, we can reach for a bottle of wine or whatever else can be a short-time fix. However, better still, a friendly voice full of encouragement can work wonders.

If you feel encouragement is helpful, does this make you want to be an encourager? If so, here are a few pointers that may help:

BUILD SOMEONE UP  Whatever a person's problem may be, it is always difficult to change their situation but, it may be possible to assist them to view the situation in a more positive manner. Help them to see themselves differently. A positive move can be to say, 'You always impress me how you manage to handle things. Others would fall at the first hurdle but, you are more focused. How do you do this?' This is helping them to be more positive and may help them realise this, so that they can see a way forward.

LET THEM KNOW HOW PRECIOUS THEY ARE  Remind them how God feels about them and others around them. Think of a time that they may have encouraged you, or someone else. This again is a more positive approach, especially if you tell them how grateful you all were for this encouragement.

REMIND THEM OF THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS  This may be to do with their work or college status. It may also be as a mother or husband or some other way that they have succeeded in. Listen to their negative conversation but don't try to be a major problem-solver, otherwise if what you advise doesn't work, they may lose their trust in you. Try to counteract their negativity with positivity without, making them feel a failure or responsible for what may have gone wrong.

REMIND THEM TO BE FOCUSED  Advise them that things will improve as they look through faith-filled eyes. God is with them and so are others. Tell them that you are praying for them and, if appropriate, invite them to a Home Group or Coffee Morning. Finally encourage them to try to speak positive words, not negative ones. Words that will build them up, not the opposite 'Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them'  Ephesians 4:29  NLT.

CONCLUSION  Is there anyone you could encourage at this time? If there is, don't try to be a counsellor, just be a friend and listen more than speak. When you do speak, ensure it is positive.

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Remembrance

"Then he said to Jesus, 'Lord, remember me when You come into Your kingdom' 43 And Jesus said to him, 'Assuredly, I say to you, today you will be with Me in Paradise.'" 

                                                                                      Luke 23:42-43  NKJV 

All over many parts of the world today, people are honouring the many veterans who were injured or died in the wars that have taken place. It is right to honour these heroes and pay our respects because they helped bring us freedom and gave us a better future.

Jesus is into remembering certain things. Here, He assures a criminal, who was also on a cross. 'He said to Jesus, 'Lord, remember me when You come into Your kingdom.' Jesus' reply confirmed that he would be with Jesus this particular day, in Paradise.

War is a great disaster to mankind. It destroys respect and love as servicemen battle to do their job. People are terribly injured and many killed; families are torn apart forever. Just check the current situations in the media today. Lives and futures are ruined in a moment. Sadly, this is unavoidable and must take place to protect the individual countries. The servicemen are veterans - heroes, who are placed in strategic positions to bring about victory. These servicemen deserve the honour, they deserve to be remembered because they gave their lives for their country. Therefore, remember them with pride and don't forget the servicemen of today who bravely do the same.

But, in remembering, let us not forget Jesus who paid the ultimate price for each one of us. Without hesitation He suffered terribly at the hands of His captors. He was beaten, whipped, humiliated and had His beard pulled out. He was hung on a cross with long nails in His hands and His feet and hung there for hours in dreadful pain while He listened to the insults hurled at Him. He then died.

Why did he do this? So that we could be free of our sin, we could have freedom with a hope and a future, when He rose again. So today, as you remember the fallen heroes of the wars, along with the many injured, spare a thought for Jesus who suffered also. Jesus is the only one who can give us true freedom and eternal life.

THANK YOU JESUS - THANK YOU SERVICEMEN

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Live a worthy life

"lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God." v1     

                                                                                         Ephesians 4:1-3 NLT

To live in such a way, one must accept their value for, the definition of 'Worthy', is value and merit. In Revelation we read, 'You are worthy, O Lord our God to receive glory and honour and power'  Revelation 4:11. Then in Revelation 5:9, 'You are worthy to take the scroll', finally in Revelation 5:12, 'Worthy is the Lamb who was slaughtered - to receive power and riches, and wisdom and strength and honour and glory and blessing.' Jesus is priceless and of the greatest of value and merit and as you and I lead a life worthy of our calling, we too are of great value and merit, because we are co-heirs with Jesus; we are joined to Him by His Blood.

You may feel that you are worth-less at times but, no you are not! You are of great value to Jesus. Start using language that will build you up when you're on your own. In this way, you will be encouraging yourself so, believe it enough to live it. God called you - yes you - so He thinks you are of worth, so live it.

Endeavour to live your life humbly because, 'God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble' James 4:6. In this way, it may seem that you are low in rank but, as God sees your actions, He will raise you up. This is because you are not being pretentious and puffed up.

Being gentle with people is always the right route to take. Not everyone is like you though, so bear that in mind and be patient with each other, making allowances for people's faults. Remember, you're not perfect and other people have to put up with your faults.

One of the most important things is to keep the unity. The old saying 'United we stand, divided we fall', is so true. The early church knew all about unity and because of this, thousands joined them as God's Word was preached. Also because of the acts of compassion that was shown to everyone. Their fellowship was practically solid. The Greek interpretation of this word, 'Fellowship', is Koinonia. To quote the notes of The Spirit Filled Bible, we read  'This means the individual shares in common an intimate bond of fellowship with the rest of the Christian Society. Koinonia cements the believers to the Lord Jesus and to each other'. 

                               Sourced from The Spirit Filled Bible (1991) Thomas Nelson, Word Wealth Acts 2:42.

Put all of the above into practice and live a life worthy of your calling. Then watch how this attracts non-believers.

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God wants your crown

"You are worthy O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power; for You created all things, and by Your will they exist and were created." v11   Revelation 4:9-11   NKJV 

Endlessly, the living creatures in heaven worship God giving Him glory, honour and thanks. He is worthy of our praise and requires it from each one of us.

In verse 10, the 24 elders fall down before Him to worship and it says that, they cast their crowns before the throne. What this is saying is, they offer up everything to God - all they have and have done and, live for Him only. He has the Majesty, not them.

Let's consider this and look at Charles Spurgeon's notes on this matter:

'We must ask ourselves if we have learned to cast our crowns at the Saviour's feet. Have we anything that we call our own, or good things that we have done to boast of? Have we been industrious and feel we deserve esteem and honour as an acknowledgement of our distinguished services? No one in glory will ever say, 'I have done well, I deserve credit and honour.' Quite the reverse. It is the mark of God's children that, the more beautiful they are, the more uncomely they think themselves. The one who gives all glory to God and takes no glory himself, is the one who is on the road to heaven.'        

There it is in a nutshell. This is what is known as casting your crowns at His feet. It is so easy when we have worked hard for God and everything has gone well, when someone comes up and says, 'Well done, that was great'. We all want and need, encouragement but not at the cost of taking the glory off Jesus and glowing in pride ourselves. It can be difficult for a preacher who has just delivered a first class sermon where lots of people have responded. It makes the preacher feel good and, that's ok but, when people offer compliments, it is far better to just give the credit to God. This avoids any swelling with pride. It's the same for worship leaders, worship bands and of course anyone else involved in ministry. 

So therefore, cast your crown at Jesus' feet and give Him the glory in everything you do. Remember how puffed up Lucifer became, wanting to be equal with God. Don't steal God's glory. Give Him your praise and your crown.

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Satisfaction Part 2

"Who satisfies your mouth with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's"                                                                  Psalm 103:5. NKJV

Let us look a little further at verse 5 and focus on 'Renewed'. God is our healer but, He may not heal us the way we had expected. You may have been wheelchair-bound and been prayed for yet, still remain in your chair. However, be open to the fact that God may have healed your mind so that you can accept and live with this disability. Who else is qualified than you to speak to other wheelchair users? Prior to prayer, you may have been depressed and frustrated because of your condition. Now, God may have renewed your thinking so that, you are open to a new ministry.

It can be the same with other disabilities whatever they may be. Some people have a severe hearing loss, or are blind, lost a limb or have a stoma. Who can help get alongside these people to support them? Yes, that's right, you can because you are ably qualified. By using your own disability it can bring you satisfaction in helping or supporting others and can, also offer satisfaction to them.

Yes, of course God heals, many can claim this blessing, including myself. But, as I have said, He doesn't always answer the way we expected and this can be confusing and hurtful. In 2 Corinthians 12:7, we read about the thorn in Paul's side. In verses 8-9 Paul writes, 'Concerning this thing, I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me. 9 And He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness."'

We don't know what this 'Thorn' was. People have speculated over the years that it may have been an illness, or an annoying person or even an addictive habit. The thing is, Paul accepted God's Word and got on with His work, and so can you. Whatever ailment you have, God can use you. You may have a stammer or be dyslexic but, God can use you to bring satisfaction to other people. He can renew your energy and energise the people you speak with. Talk to God about it. Someone, somewhere needs you to speak with them.

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Satisfaction

"Who satisfies your mouth with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's" V5 of  Psalm 103:1-5  NKJV 

The Rolling Stones sang, 'I can't get no satisfaction' back in the swinging 60's. They were obviously unaware of this Psalm which is packed with promise. Yet, many people today (and many of them are Christians) feel they are not satisfied; they always seem to be striving to find something better. From a Christian perspective, let us look a little closer at verse 5:

Satisfies your mouth  There are many people today who are desperate for food, some are literally starving. I'm not just talking of Third World countries or war-torn areas. Many are going without a good, solid meal here in our own country. Firstly, there are the homeless and socially deprived people on our streets. Often they go without regular meals. 'Oh yes', some may say, 'but they have money for cigarettes, drugs, booze and their mobiles'. This may be true, but who called us to be their judge. We don't know where they have been; what life they have had and they need support.

Many elderly people are finding things a struggle in our present energy crisis. Some are unsure whether they should pay their energy bills, turn the heating off or up, or buy food. For many, it can be a Catch 22 situation, and this is happening to all age groups. As Christians, we have so much to be grateful to God for. As we give Him the first place in our lives, He keeps His promises and ensures we have enough.

Satisfies us with good things   Just look around your home. There is probably, flat screen TV's, Hi Fi units, laptops, mobiles, iPads, cookers, washers, dishwashers, tumble dryers and nice clothes and shoes to wear. Then there is a new car or two, a lovely home, healthy bank-balance, good job and holidays abroad. It's amazing when you think, you probably started with nothing. There is so much God has done for us and we need to remember to thank and praise Him for this.

Satisfies you with renewed energy  People are living longer and many appear to be fitter than our ancestors. For instance, let us say you have just retired at 65. Think back to when you were a child and saw someone of this age. They seemed ancient to your young mind. People are taking more care of themselves. This is what God wants of us all. Things may be thrown at us occasionally - stress, upheaval and hurt but, He renews our energy so that, we can cope with it all.

The world is desperate for satisfaction but, they will only find it in Jesus. He is full of goodness and mercy towards His children. You and I have a lot to be thankful for.

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It's not too late

"You have kept the good wine until now"               v10 of John 2:1-11  NKJV 

The Wedding at Cana was in full swing when disaster struck - they ran out of wine. This would have been of great embarrassment to the family and hosts and, would probably have been talked about throughout Galilee. Mary encouraged Jesus to take charge and offer help. He changed the water into the finest of wines. The Master of the Feast was astonished that the best wine was left until the end, usually this is the time when the cheaper wine is brought out without the people realising it. However, the best was yet to come.

It is the same in your life too. God has not forgotten you; you are still high on His list of things to do, and at the right time, He will deliver. Note in this account that the servants had to fill six huge water pots which would have been a bit of a task to do. The result was the finest wine money could buy, enough for around 2880 glasses. But, if the servants had neglected to be obedient to Jesus' directions, they would have had nothing. The name of the game was obedience. If you have been waiting sometime for God to move in your life, is there something that you need to do first? Ask God; He'll show you because He has your best interests at heart.

It's never too late for you. You may be a senior member of God's army, with the greyist of hair and wobbly legs around; but if God wants to use you, He will. Look at the older people God used in the bible - Moses, Jacob, Joshua, Caleb and many others. Age is of no concern to God, in fact, with age comes experience which needs passing down to the younger members. He has a place for you to minister.

Don't write yourself off, God hasn't. Take a look at Psalm 92:12-14:

"The righteous shall flourish like a palm tree, He shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon. 13 Those who are planted in the house of the LORD shall flourish in the courts of of our God. 14 They shall still bear fruit in old age, they shall be fresh and flourishing"

Hey, come on - there's no retirement in the Kingdom of God. The best is yet to come; it's not too late. God will still use you, if you are willing and you will have a fresh anointing as well.

Get ready for action!

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