Use God's Compassion and Kindness

"A gift opens the way for the giver and ushers him into the presence of the great"    

                                                                                 Proverbs 18:16  NIV

This could be read as, dealing with a bribe and the effectiveness of this behaviour. However, Solomon was not referring to this at all; in fact, he had condemned such behaviour because this was evil and, perverted justice. Here, he was simply acknowledging the fact that expressions of kindness can open doors that, are otherwise closed. The NKJV puts it this way: 'A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men.' This interpretation, although correct, misses out on a fuller meaning, as we will see below.

This verse can be divided into threes groups, YOUR OWN GIFT, A BRIBE or AN ACT OF KINDNESS. Let's look at these individually:

YOUR OWN GIFT

Taking the New King James version of this verse, we can interpret that the particular gift God has given you, fully placed into His Hand, can take off and develop into a successful ministry. All over the world, men and women of God have set up in ministries that reach out to people, preaching, teaching and preparing Christian people for them also, to go into the world and do the same. However, there are large ministries and there are smaller ones. Just because, one has a large ministry does not take anything away from the smaller ministry. This is just the way it is at the time and they are equally good and effective. There is also room here for the individual, to use his or her gifting to honour God. However, there may be a need to be patient and wait for the right time and opening.

A BRIBE

Sadly, bribes happen in the business and the Christian world. Corruption can strike allowing an individual, company or church, to manipulate a situation in the way they want to go by offering these bribes by way of finance, contract offers or promotion to a very high position. This was what Solomon was attempting to stamp out. Check the weekly news channels and you will find it still happening today in both secular and religious movements. One thing we need to be aware of is, we cannot bribe God no matter how hard we may try by promising to be good or change a particular thing in our life. He remains Impartial.

ACTS OF KINDNESS

Many is the time that we can break through great barriers of resistance, by showing someone kindness. And this probably was uppermost in Solomon's mind. Compassion can reach the heart of the toughest of people. And this is what our world needs today. Check out Jesus' compassion; it was amazing. By His kind and gentle approach to hurting people, He drew them to Himself and, this is the way the Holy Spirit wants you and I to go, down the road of peace, love and kindness.

Can you offer this to someone today?

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You will come through this!

17For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory,  18while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal.

Many today are suffering a great loss. This may be the loss of someone very dear to you - whether by death or a marital separation. Others may be undergoing a loss of a job that they had given all they had to make it work; all of a sudden, the job is no more and they're wondering how they are going to live. The loss may be a teenager leaving home to go to college, or a married daughter or son emigrating with their new family. There may be many more things that bring a loss that doesn't seem to go away. With the loss come many changes to life and, these changes are very difficult to negotiate.

You may be feeling this way. Words fail at such times so, people tend not to say much to you because of the fear that they may make matters worse. Not everyone is a counsellor and if they were, perhaps initially, this would still not help. It's difficult to see a way forward and the loss may weigh you down so much that, you just haven't the motivation to attempt to even try.

Psalm 30:5 tells us: 'Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.' This is not to be taken so literally that you can expect things to be better after a night's rest. Not at all, things may be very bleak at such a time but as you allow God to be involved in your loss, He will help you find a way through. The Amplified Bible's notes on this verse read: 'Afflictions produce glory, but the glory is far greater than the affliction.' Things will get better but, there is a way to go before this happens.

Paul, in his verses above, tells us similar and, goes further by suggesting that you, by faith, look ahead to what is yet unseen. The things that are happening, cannot be changed but, the pain is only temporary. Soon, you will be strong enough to take a step forward, as God takes your hand and leads you through the turmoil.

Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts to avoiding grief, loss, heartache and fear. They are here with you and there is no quickfix. However, it is only for a short time because, as Paul says, they are only temporary. You will come through this time.

This is a time when only God has the answers to the many questions that come into your mind. Talk to Him, listen as well; in fact pour out the sadness, the anger and the frustration on Him and allow Him to give you rest and peace.

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Are you stuck in your comfort zone?

"But Jesus said  to him, 'No one, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.'"   Luke 9:62    NKJV

Jesus was speaking about the cost of following Him; the way things would have to be given up and changes made. Read the piece of scripture Luke 9:57-62 to get the fuller picture. Let us look at what He said to the third person. 

What He was saying was, when a person decides to live for Jesus, it is no good for him or the kingdom of God, if he keeps looking back to his old life. The Israelites were like this when Moses was leading them to the Promised Land. Whenever they met with some form of hardship that threatened their comfort. they grumbled about it and told Moses he should have left them in Egypt. 

Many people want new things to happen but only if they can remain in their comfort zone, with very little change. This is impossible, change brings new directions; new lives and new opportunities. If we want things to get better we need to stop living in the past; we need to be forward thinking people, not backward. To be any different is to be double-minded - we want it but not if it's going to be uncomfortable or cost us too much.

What about you, are you stuck in your comfort zone? To belong to Jesus brings with it, the necessity to count the cost. Firstly to be a Christian means you no longer live for yourself, you belong to Him. Therefore, you forfeit the choice of doing what you wish to do and live in obedience to Jesus. He is not a fierce taskmaster, who will bully you into something, you still have a choice but, if you want His blessing, obedience is the right way. He only wants the best for you and will endeavour to deliver it, if you let Him.

Jesus calls some people out into ministry, others He uses in their own environments to live a life where people notice the difference and want to know more about why they live this way. 

To move out of you comfort zone is not easy. It takes discipline and hard work and it may be helpful to set small challenges, one's that are easier to achieve. It can't be rushed, change is never easy but it is better than just sitting their and thinking about it. We are called to be 'Doers not hearers only' James 1:22. So, if you are struggling stepping out of your comfort zone, remember it is the 'doers' that get things done. 

Don't you think it is time to step out and overcome the challenges and live the life Jesus intended for you? I think you know it makes sense and, what's more there is something stirring within you.

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If God says you can, you can!

"I can do all things [which He has called me to do] through Him who strengthens and empowers me [to fulfill His purpose--I am self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency; I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses me with inner strength and confident peace.]"    Philippians 4:13   Amplified Version  

How many times do we feel that we can't do a particular thing because, we believe that we can't. Very often we can shy away from doing some task because fear takes over and, we begin to doubt our ability. This is not a bad thing; being cautious is necessary at times. However, if this type of mentality continues, we need to change this by believing in ourselves more. God can help with this.

Take our scripture today, note that the Amplified version states: 'I can do all things [which He has called me to do]' This is most important. It would be foolish to go and climb Mount Everest because God has said we can do all things. This would be life-threatening. However, if He has called you to do this, as scary as it may seem, He would help you to fulfil this.

We have to read around the scriptures to gather what is being said. To take a scripture out of context, can be quite risky. Here, Paul was talking about how content he was in God's provision. He was basically saying that he was content in all things, whether he had an abundance or lack of things. As long as he had God, that was all he needed.

You see, Paul knew that he was in God's will; he knew that he could trust God in all things and that He would never let him down, even if he had to suffer for it, and he really did.

It's the same with you. If you have Jesus in your heart, you can be sure that He will take care of your needs - you can trust Him. However, you need to listen carefully to what he is leading you to do or say. Just because this scripture say you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you, does not mean that He is asking you to do what you feel is right. He will show you clearly when He wants you to do a particular task. Don't just dash ahead of Him; allow Him to be ahead of you; here is a major difference - He knows where He is going, you don't.

Quite a lot of people believe that God is telling them to do a particular thing, when He isn't. It can come at a great price when you get it wrong. Therefore, don't hold back in fear, but on the other hand don't rush out thinking He has called you. Check it out with Him; He'll show you. Alternatively, don't miss out when He is calling you out, because of your fear and lack of confidence. Talk with your pastor or trusted Christian friend and get it confirmed with God too. And remember, if God says you can, you can!

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You are never too old

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new."               2 Corinthians 5:17    NKJV 

God is not ageist. If he was, He wouldn't have used Moses who was 80 years of age when he started his work for God. He most certainly would not have used Abraham who was approaching 100, or others such as the 80 year old Caleb. Praise God that He was not into ageism because, if He had have been, we would have been nowhere.

Sadly, ageism crops up in most places today. It can be found in local churches, where it can be all about youth. It can also be found in a lot of workplaces and in the media contracts come to an end and are not renewed, leaving the person feeling like a reject. You may have come up against ageism yourself and although you feel that you have so much more to give, there is nowhere to give it. But there is!

Some older people, have the 'I'm too old' mentality. If you think like this, you will be and people will notice and accept it. You are never too old for what God has in store for you, you just need to seek God. 

I myself came to a place where I was no longer chosen to preach. This hurt, after many years of speaking from a pulpit. I spoke to God about this and, He said very clearly: 'If you can't preach it - write it'. I was quite bewildered over this and felt, how on earth can I 'write it'; and this was where 'Daily Life with Jesus' was born. I now write everyday for Jesus and the blog goes all over the world. I love every minute it because, I know that I am in God's will, and with Him, I'll never be too old.

And it's the same with you. God may not call you to write a daily commentary like He did me but, He may suggest a book. The thing is, you'll never know until you ask Him. You see, with God, you are never redundant, there is no unemployment in the Kingdom of God. So, if you're feeling unused and sitting on the sub's bench, seek Him and ask. He has plans for you that you could never have dreamed about. You may feel that you are 'past it' but, when you get in the right frame of mind and spend time with God, He will show you a way where there wasn't one before. In fact, He may make a way just for you.

Are you excited about this? Has this stirred your spirit? If so, you need to seek God.

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It's time to 'Let go'

"Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old. 19 Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it?"   Isaiah 43:18-19   NKJV

God cannot do a new thing in your life until, you get rid of the old thing. There's a need to 'let go'; to let go of the things that have been holding you back. When you do, God is able to do that new thing in your life.

Here in Isaiah, God tells us not to remember the former things. These are the things that have hurt you, angered you and caused you heartache. Bad memories are no good to you. They fester and burn away at your soul. They cause you to keep playing the video back of, disappointments and other bad things. You begin having conversations with yourself and forever, coming up with the wrong answers. It's time to stop this and, you do this by refusing to be held captive by things that have hurt you. In other words, you let go.

God continues and tells us that He is doing a new thing. You may say, 'When?' The answer is, when you stop remembering the bad stuff and open yourself to the good stuff that Jesus has for you. Let's get this right, God is not the one who keeps reminding you of these things, that's the devil's department. He's the author of lies.

You may have heard what I am about to write, over and over again but, it's vitally important and being repetitive helps people to get the point. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says:

'For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, 5 casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.'

Did you get that? You and I are in a battle and the only way to achieve victory is, to stick to the Word of God. You have to take hold of the negative words that the devil brings up in your mind and, make it captive to Jesus. The devil causes torment - Jesus brings peace and freedom.

So, don't you think that you need to 'Let go' of all the things of yesterday and start living in a brand new day? At the end of it all, the only thing really worth remembering is that Jesus loves you.

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Are you happy?

"A merry heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones."  

                                                                             Proverbs 17:22   NKJV

Are you happy? Be honest! If so, why? If not, Why? Two questions to define where you are at this moment. Your answer to these questions may help determine why you are feeling this way and, may help others in similar situations, as you share with them.

You can't hide your unhappiness for very long, sooner or later someone will notice it. Proverbs 15:13 says: 'A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance, but by sorrow of the heart, the spirit is broken' Mostly, people can't tell your inner feelings, unless you tell them. However, they can tell by the look on your face - your body language gives it away. 

People today are walking around with problems that they are trying to deal with. They may act ok from the outside but, their inner-self is in turmoil. As it grows worse it may lead to crisis. Proverbs 12:25 says: 'Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression but, a good word makes it glad.' When a person is clinically depressed, it is very difficult to help them and it may be better to leave this to a suitably qualified counsellor. What we can do though, is to attempt to speak encouraging words to them without, overdoing it: 'A man has joy by the answer of his mouth, and a word spoken in due season (at the right time) how good it is' Proverbs 10:25 (My additional words in brackets). You may say, 'What about Jesus, surely He can help?' Of course he can but, this depends on how bad the depressed person is. Medication and rest may be the answer.

This may be where you are! If you are unhappy and there are no family issues causing it, such as abuse, then you need to be honest and ask for help. Many people become depressed in the dark winter months and, what with the economy the way it is, it's understandable. Are you eating, or do you tend to avoid meal times because you don't feel like eating? Are you taking care of yourself? Are you taking medication that may have a side effect of depression? It may help to get checked out by your GP, who can expertly assess your situation and take appropriate action if required. A close friend may be helpful to speak with as long as they don't try to counsel you - leave this to the professionals.

However, don't forget Jesus. He's a professional and knows all things and He has the answer to your predicament. Why not seek His advice. He won't add to your pressure and will show you what to do.

Don't pretend that you're ok and don't ignore the symptoms of depression. It is vital to seek help!

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